As we move deeper into the Christmas season, we often focus on lights, celebrations, and joyful songs. Yet the first Christmas was very difficult. Mary and Joseph faced deep struggles, heavy responsibilities, and unexpected challenges. Their journey teaches us that God’s greatest works often come through seasons of difficulty. Christmas invites us to learn from their faith, courage, and obedience.
Mary and Joseph lived in a society shaped by strict cultural expectations. Engagement was binding, reputations mattered, and social shame was severe. When Mary was found to be with child, both faced judgment and misunderstanding. Joseph considered ending the engagement quietly, while Mary had to endure gossip and fear. Their journey to Bethlehem was long and difficult, and Jesus was born not in comfort but in a humble manger. Christmas began with faith tested by hardship, yet strengthened by God’s presence.
First, Mary teaches us obedience even when the path is unclear.
Luke 1:38 says, “Mary said, I am the Lord’s servant, may your word to me be fulfilled.”
Mary was young, poor, and vulnerable. The angel’s announcement brought more questions than answers, yet Mary responded with surrender. She risked her reputation, her security, and her future. Her obedience did not remove her struggles, but it allowed God to work wonders through her life.
When God calls us to difficult tasks, obedience may feel costly. Yet like Mary, we can say, “Lord, let Your will be done.” God does His greatest work through hearts that trust Him even when the journey is unclear.
Faith grows when we say yes to God even when we cannot see the whole road.
Second, Joseph teaches us about trusting God in the midst of difficulties.
Matthew 1:20–21 says, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.”
Joseph faced confusion, social tension, and personal disappointment. Yet when God spoke to him in a dream, he trusted God’s word and obeyed. Trusting God did not remove Joseph’s difficulties, but it gave him strength to walk through them. He protected Mary, led the family to Bethlehem, and later fled to Egypt to keep Jesus safe.
In our own difficulties, God often calls us not to understand everything, but to trust Him. His plans may lead us through unexpected paths, but His presence provides direction and peace.
Trust grows when we choose faith over fear.
Mary and Joseph remind us that the Christmas story is not only about joy, but also about faith that endures through hardship.
May God bless us all!
Sincerely,
Rev. Dr. Francis Neil G. Jalando-on
Director, Office of Communications
Central Philippine University